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Michael Kors handbags outlet Monday morning shortly before noon, Gillian Bennett dragged a foam mattress from her home on Bowen Island to one of her favourite spots on the grass, facing a craggy rock cliff, the place she had chosen to die.
Bennett, who was 85 and in the early stages of dementia, chose to take her own life with a draught of good whiskey, a dose of Nembutal mixed with water and her husband of 60 years by her side.
"I held her hand," said Jonathan, a retired philosophy professor. His voice is reflective, resonant, measured. "I am becoming a vegetable," she wrote.
"Every day I lose bits
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cheap Michael Kors towards the state that all dementia patients eventually get to: not knowing who I am and requiring full time care."
Bennett wanted to face death as she faced the challenges of her life: with intellectual curiosity, courage and grace.
So she decided to end her life before her mind was totally gone.
"She wouldn’t let me help her, and I didn’t wish
cheap Michael Kors outlet to," said Jonathan. "I don’t know where she got the Nembutal or the instructions; she didn’t tell me."
Nor did she let him help her drag the mattress outside, although that final effort was physically difficult for her.
One thing her husband does know for sure: "She was absolutely not frightened. Not even slightly. She was as calm and peaceful as you could imagine."
After she passed away, Jonathan let go of her hand and called his wife’s doctor, who came and confirmed death and notified the
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An RCMP officer interviewed Jonathan and together they waited for the coroner.
"The policeman asked me what happened and I told him. He was very good. Efficient and civilized and good," said Jonathan.
The officer’s respectful treatment was a small comfort. He and his wife knew that if anyone assisted her, they would be breaking the law.
"Gillian and I both disliked and disapproved of the laws making it impossible to help a loved one with something as important as death."
His brilliant, beautiful wife who once had a thriving clinical psychotherapy practice had made the choice she felt was morally and ethically correct.
Dementia had crept in bit by bit.
Lately, Bennett became increasingly forgetful, hyperfocused on certain things, obsessing non stop about others.
"She was failing more quickly in the last six months," said her daughter Sara, "and she knew it."
During lucid moments in the last two years, Bennett wrote about her decision. Vegetating for years in a hospital in diapers, incompetent, a financial and physical burden was a prospect she perceived as "ludicrous and wasteful."
"Her position wasn’t just that she didn’t want to be a burden to others," said Jonathan. "She was also considering the kind of life she would have. It would have been hard on the rest of us and not good enough for her."Articles Connexes：